How to start something? it’s not that troublesome

Pushpender Yadav
6 min readDec 28, 2019

starts something new is like bathing with cold water in winters at first is feels tough once it’s done you are free to pour some more mugs on yourself.

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Starting something new is quite different — it feels tight, but it’s not, it’s kind of dealing with many things and fighting with yourself.

Some of you may be thinking of starting new things and projects in 2020.

You may not have the plan for it, but still, you want to do it.

How should one start something new? You may have gone through various articles and videos, a lot of people out there sharing a lot of things?

You may be following some entrepreneurs and internet influencers, how they have created that much wealth? Do you want to do the same? Of course — you do.

We all want to make money, some of us trying much harder then it required? If you look at the life of these entrepreneurs and influencers — you’ll notice they have done; what they want to do, in other words, they have followed their hearts and intuition.

“Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow know what you truly want to become.”

by- Steve jobs

It’s kind of funny you heard it before, don’t you?

Why are these entrepreneurs making that much money?

Some of you may have thought because they read a lot of books.

Maybe that’s true or perhaps not?

I have seen people reading 100s books and getting more confused than ever, reading too many books only confuses you.

just read limited data that you can consume, because less is more.

I was lately reading the book “zero to one” by (Peter Thiel) in this book he has mentioned.

How will be the future and future entrepreneurs?

He has suggested, if someone thinks of creating Facebook in the future then simply means he is stupid.

This is correct because a lot of apps die because of Facebook, you know “Orkut” it still exists, but no one cares.

Things change with time, and you have to use them wisely for your growth.

This conveys that we have to think differently and must think of some different business because things that worked in the past may not work now.

Today we have a lot of companies producing similar kinds of products if you are trying to build the same product to stand in the market, you may or may not succeed. I am not saying that you don’t have to work? Try, but just analyze before you starts?

What comes in mind when you try to start something?

The most challenging thing to deal with, when you think of starting something and conducts your research, you find out a lot of people are already doing the same thing from years, how are you going to stand in them or survive?

And you think of quitting without trying; it happens with most of the people they entirely without trying, even though they have a massive idea in there head.

Your head may tickle with thoughts, like, if I failed? If people don’t find my work exciting and so on, a continuous loop of thoughts, same happened with me a year back, when I was in 2nd year of my college and trying to write an article and publish it, I was so fearful that it took me one year to start writing.

when you decide to do something, just do it in the moment of thought, moment of thought simply means, when you got the thought just do it. because later whole thing chnages and motivation that you carry in that moment will not be transfered further.

Don’t wait for too long because you are only delaying your success in whatever you want to do.

There are no rules to start anything?

As you know that many people of us start making stupid rules, like when I reach the age of 20, I will start doing it, and sometimes it’s about reading data and from different sources. That when I complete this I will begin to and some wait for the right time, It seems like as they know the right time.

Looking at all the facts it seems like there are no such rules required, if you look at the event, you will find some people have started in their minimal age and now really successful, Facebook and the wealth of barren buffet are such examples.

i.e. the reason people are selling stupidity on the internet, you may come across a lot of videos and posts that are telling about the instant success, and how you can grow rich by reading books?

If there is such thing as instant success then everyone must be aware of that, sometimes question hit’s my mind? If progress is so easy to grab, then why? These people are trying so hard by making these videos to fool people by doing overtime? If you look at the work time of these people, you will know that they are doing overtime. They are working day and night to sell their stuff, why?

So don’t get fooled by these, just start whatever you want to do by gathering the right information.

Don’t fear the process?

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You know that when you think of starting something, a lot of changes happen to you, change in time management, change in the way of living and change in mindset because you are going to deal with a lot of things during the process.

most of us fear the process because we are afraid of change deep down, sometimes we don’t even realize.

A year back, I thought of started writing, and thoughts that busted into my head are, what am I going to write? How you will you do that? If some criticize your work? If no buddy reads? What you have written and the most common thought, some people are already writing on that niche, and they are right?

These things always interrupt you and stop you from doing anything, just overcome all these and take one step and just start.

Not only thought’s sometimes, you will lack resources comfort and many other things, but you have to maintain once you have thought of doing it. Because in the end your affords to pay back.

The process of change is painful — you can’t change until you haven’t gone through any pain; even a stone handles the strickes of hammer while converting into a well finished statue — once it is finished lot of people come to visit it and shows gratitude towards it.

Don’t hesitate to roar about your plan?

Many people say that keep it secret and you succeed or just tell them when you finished, the second one seems quite familiar easy.

Still, it also increases your chances of failure because if you keep it secret than sometimes it may remain mysterious for a lifetime.

I don’t think you want to end up like this? just roar what you want to do because once you have roared and you’re a man of your words than you will stick to your words. And make it happen, or a find way to do it.

If you fail in any case, you find that your words that you have said in front of others are always going to push you forward, because your heart will always suggest that you have to do it, as nothing is impossible at all.

Do not think, what others think, in my life’s only motto is, i never thinks what other thinks. because you don’t see same people always in your life.

Keep yourself motivated?

The most important thing is to be motivated because if you are motivated and happy than your energies work differently as compared to when you are sad and depressed.

Don’t seek for motivation because it will work as medicine this means you are sick of something and it can only be cured by motivation, your work must motivate you, otherwise why you are trying to do it anyway?

So choose a work that gives you a reason to wake up and do it daily so that you will not regret it later.

Hoping for the best this post may help you carry your paused journey of doing something forward.

I will make the second part of this by doing some research. It will be about the problems that affect you while you try to do something.

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